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Welcome to the Blog.

Here you’ll find articles that explore emotional recovery, spiritual restoration, relationship dynamics, and personal growth after loss. Whether you are seeking answers, reassurance, or simply a reminder that you are not alone, these writings are here to meet you where you are.

📝 New posts are added periodically. We invite you to read, reflect, and return often.

The Wolf and Shepherd

I wrote this poem to encourage people who are weary from the battle to recover from their wounds. It is easy to lose perspective on

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The Red Christmas Ball

 I wrote this blog in honor of the many betrayed spouses who experience a marital crisis that hits them hard during the holidays, especially Christmas

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The Phantom Leg

I’ve been remarried for over twenty-two years to a wonderful man named Dan. In 2020, during the pandemic, doctors discovered he had a large growth

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The Cheater Meter

Common Traits of the UnfaithfulI will never forget the words of a nurse friend named Ann. We ate mozzarella-topped salads as I bemoaned my husband’s

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Cognitive Dissonance

This blog post includes most of Chapter 16 of my upcoming book, The Post-Affair Divorce: Heal Your Life, Restore Your Faith, after Infidelity Breaks Up Your

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Rationalizing

This is a brief article for a better understanding of the dynamic of rationalizing. One of the biggest things that I believe can liberate a

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It’s Not Your Fault

In the movie Ghost Town, Gwen—a recently widowed woman—discovers that her late husband had been involved in an affair before his death. The revelation plunges her

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